The Hope in Suffering–A Pastoral ResponseDear Mr. Wiesel has in fact rejected the very person who causes suffering to have meaning, the very medium, in the Cross, through which the Lord gives those who suffer hope, and the only one who has promised to ultimately deliver from suffering and evil. It is that Israeli of ancient time, Jesus of Nazareth, who Himself caused time to be, who is the watershed between despair and hope in the midst of agonizing suffering. Wiesel had rejected the very cornerstone of hope, the Messiah who had borne the stripes of the whip ages before him, who hung upon a cross, who died a tortuous death exiled from His own people, to die alone outside the camp.
To hold and weep with the young Wiesel is certainly a loving thing to do; however, to stop with only tears, sentiment and embrace is to empathize with a pauper-child who has not eaten for two weeks and not give him the bread that he so desperately needs. There is no counsel man can offer apart from the Cross. There is no comfort, apart from the Cross, for those who suffer. It is at the Cross that we ourselves must wrestle with the pain we do not understand; it is the God-Man Jesus Christ, the Bread of Life, which we must liberally extend from one pauper to another in times of affliction and suffering.
The Apostle John writes that it is Christ who is the exegesis of God, it is Christ who explains the most transcendent and mysterious in terms of immanence and personality. "No one has at any time seen God. The One who is in the bosom of the Father, the only begotten God, that one interpreted [the Father to us]" (Jn 1:18, writer's translation). How can a man, perhaps a pastor, comfort anyone who has suffered as Elie Wiesel has suffered? He confesses despair which cannot be healed by human hands. At root he has made an interpretation of the Lord, borne from the depths of the darkest desolation. Only the Light of the Gospel of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ, which can penetrate to those who suffer as Wiesel, it is only divine glory which is able shine in the catacombs of consternation.
The question is then, for the pastor or anyone else who would find themselves with the charge entrusted them to comfort the suffering:
What interpretation of God will I offer the one writhing in pain? What sustenance will I offer to the one whose gut bellows with deafening howls of agony? Will I offer them the Christ and all that He is and promised, or shall I offer them something less?
When we pray for the suffering, the sick and the afflicted it is often the case that we pray for their healing, betterment and deliverance from their arduous situation. The Lord is concerned with our immanent needs:
6Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies ? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. 7Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows. (Lk 12:6-7 NIV)
So we must pray according to the
immanent concerns of God – the pain, agony, despair; however, we must also be faithful to pray according to the
transcendent concerns of God – His glory, His will, His purposes in history. If we pray
only according to the immanent then we run the risk of implying that God will, and intends to deliver the person from their dire straits. The problem is that this is not always the case, and in our presumption we attempt to speak authoritatively about the purpose of God. Who are we to presume upon the will of our Maker!?
From that time Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised. 22And Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying, “Far be it from you, Lord! This shall never happen to you.” 23But he turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a hindrance to me. For you are not setting your mind on the things of God, but on the things of man.” (Mt 16:21-23 ESV)
The Lord Jesus makes plain to all who will hear that there are times in which the Lord's will and purpose is confusing and takes those involved through pain, agony, and suffering – and in the case of some torture and death. The Lord is concerned about the "things of men" but He is first concerned about His glorious purposes and plans which transcend the finite realm of humanity and confound even the wisest mortals.
So when we pray
only in an immanent fashion, and it comes to pass that the husband dies of cancer or the father is sent to the gas chamber, we subject the faith of those for whom we pray to the furnace of despair which has burned belief out of many souls, shriveling their hearts, as it were, so that there is nothing left for God at all. We
must pray with
both the transcendence and immanence of God in mind.
Therefore, where the immanence of God is concerned with the smallest concerns of this world, the transcendence of God is concerned with God himself – his ways, his purposes, his will.
These are unlike their human counterparts altogether. It is this transcendence that gives the man dying a painful death the hope that though he may not be healed, he may die well, believing, trusting that his death and suffering will glorify the Lover of his soul, with whom he will soon be face to face. And this is what we have in Christ, the one who endured more than any other person with perfect belief that his suffering and death would bring his Father the greatest glory. Indeed, this was the case.
It is the Lord who demonstrates His love for His people
through pain. Certainly the Divine One is impassable, incapable of suffering, being wholly removed from the mess of sin and death that constitutes this world; yet,
He came down and in all of the finitude of His humanity, He felt every piece of bone that ripped the flesh from off His back. He felt every nick in the cold metal of each of the spikes that impaled His lovely limbs. And when he gasped for his last breath, piked upon the Tree, He alone experienced the Father abandon him to torturous death, receiving the infinite wrath of the Almighty.
It is this Christ that we proclaim to those in dire straits. It is this interpretation of the Father that we must give to those who suffer, both in word and in deed. Anything else we might offer in His place is mere trite counterfeit, a mockery of unbelief erupting from our own hearts. Adolphe Monod, a French pastor who was well acquainted with suffering himself, writes:
Yet in order for us to understand God's love in all of its fullness and reality, it was necessary for God to present himself to us in such a way as to prove his love to us through pain. Mankind could never have been persuaded – or rather won – in any other way. Therefore Jesus Christ, the Son of God and God himself, became the Son of man that he might suffer and thus show God's love through acts capable of breaking the hardest hearts…1
It is therefore imperative that all who would counsel the bereaved would point them to the interpretation of the Father, which is given by God in Christ. "It is certain that man never achieves a clear knowledge of himself unless he has first looked upon God's face, and then descends from contemplating him to scrutinize himself."
2 To rightly understand their own suffering the bereaved must have the right interpretation and must contemplate the mysterious depths of their very real pain from the face of God down to themselves, to possess the hope which transcends all understanding, being alone the incomprehensible Lord who
still comes down today.
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1 Adolphe Monod. Living in the Hope of Glory. (Ed. and trans. by Constance K. Walker. Phillipsburg: Presbyterian and Reformed, 2002), 113-114.
2 John Calvin. Institutes of the Christian Religion. (Ed. by John T. McNeill. Trans. by Ford Lewis Battles. 2 vol. LCC. Philadelphia: Westminster Press, 1960), 37.